⚠️ ATTENTION: Only 5 Spots Available This Month in the Quad Cities Area four our Couple Lead intensive!
AT RISK OF DIVORCE?
MARRIAGE INTENSIVE
"Getting help from a certified couple is far more impacting, especially when they are biblically trained.”
Stop the cycle of conflict, get real-biblical guidance from couples who have been there. Our couple-helping-couple intensive is built on God’s truth to help you find lasting hope and transformation in just 10 weeks.
⚠️ ATTENTION: Only 5 Spots Available This Month in the Quad Cities Area four our Couple-Lead intensive!
AT RISK OF DIVORCE?
MARRIAGE INTENSIVE
"Getting help from a certified couple is far more impacting, especially when they are biblically trained.”
Stop the cycle of conflict, get real-biblical guidance from couples who have been there. Our couple-helping-couple intensive is built on God’s truth to help you find lasting hope and transformation in just 10 weeks.
About Us
Refresh Your Marriage is a proven, Christ-centered marriage mentoring process designed to transform the way couples connect and communicate. Our approach is grounded in biblical truth and equips you to resolve conflicts effectively while also deepening intimacy in four key areas: verbal, emotional, spiritual, and physical.
After interviewing countless couples who had already sought help through counseling, we discovered critical components often missing—leaving many feeling frustrated and hopeless. That’s why our method is different. With clear steps, weekly homework, and practical assignments, we provide momentum and real solutions tailored to your unique relationship.
It all begins with our online marriage assessment, which identifies the areas where your marriage needs the most attention. From there, we guide you through resolving issues one step at a time. To ensure lasting results, we continue following up with you for one full year, helping you stay on track with your goals and action plan.
95%
Success Rate
+15
Years of Experience
+100
Couples Restored
Hear From Our Clients
Meet Matt and Pam Loehr
Certified Marriage Mentors & Founders
Matt and Pam Loehr made a life-changing career shift from the corporate world to answer God’s call into full-time marriage ministry. Together, they founded Dare to be Different, a nonprofit organization dedicated to strengthening families by empowering marriages.
Driven by a shared passion for building healthy, Christ-centered relationships, Matt and Pam bring both wisdom and practical insight that resonates across generations. As authors, speakers, and mentors, they have developed a powerful mentoring process that has proven effective around the world.
To date, they have trained over 80,000 marriage mentors in 15 countries, equipping couples with the tools to guide others toward restoration and growth. Their approach, grounded firmly in biblical truth and paired with practical strategies, has impacted countless marriages—bringing hope, healing, and renewed love.
Save Your Marriage Today!
Frequently Asked Questions
Have a question about our services? Check out our FAQs below!
"I don't have time for this right now..."
The consultation takes only 45 minutes and can be done online or in-person. Compare that to years of unhappiness or the emotional and financial cost of divorce. Which time investment makes more sense?
"My partner won’t want to participate…"
Many couples start with just one spouse interested. Our approach is designed to gradually engage both partners. You’ll be surprised how small changes from one side can transform the entire dynamic.
"We’ve tried couples therapy before…"
Our method is different from traditional therapy. We focus on practical tools and fast results, not just “talking about problems.” Many of our clients had tried therapy unsuccessfully before finding us.
"Our situation is too complicated..."
We’ve helped couples through infidelity, financial problems, addiction, lack of intimacy, and much more. Every case is unique, but the fundamental principles for restoring a marriage are universal.
What You'll Discover in Your
FREE Consultation
Give us a chance to show you how your marriage can be at its best every day. Here's what you'll receive in your complimentary session:
Christ-Centered Relationship Diagnosis
We'll identify exactly where your relationship problems stem from and what’s causing the constant conflicts, using the wisdom of scripture to guide our assessment.
Emotional & Spiritual Reconnection
Discover how to reignite the passion and intimacy you had when you first fell in love, focusing on spiritual alignment as the path to deep connection.
Your Personalizaded Action Plan
Receive a custom roadmap for your specific situation with practical, faith-based steps to transform your marriage.
Give us a chance to show you how you can
build a stronger, faith-filled marriage.
Every day you wait without taking action, you drift further apart. Don't drift—with the right spiritual guidance, you could be celebrating a transformed marriage in just 10 weeks.
Discover Proven Techniques for
Building a Stronger, More Loving Marriage
When trying to fix your spouse fails, try loving. You'll be amazed at the results!
Our program is based on years of research and experience working with couples just like you to transform their relationship and experience a deeper level of love and intimacy.
Investing in your relationship is one of the most important things you can do for yourself, your spouse, and your family. Let us help you begin your journey towards a lifetime of love.
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